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Posted on Monday, February 11, 2008 at 6:49 AM by Duncan Bouwer

There is a difference between homosexuality and being gay. When someone struggles with homosexual feelings, that does not make them gay. To have homosexual feelings, and to acknowledge them is one thing, but to invest your entire identity into your sexual preference, is another. That is being gay. It colours the way you relate to society, because the traditional way that things are put together, with men and women, and children and so forth, is everything that you are not. That was my story.

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